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Well...the thing is that I normally DO pay for my male friends. Then you know exaclty what I'm talking about. My point is that gestures can mean different thin
by astine 17y ago
Well...the thing is that I normally DO pay for my male friends.
Then you know exaclty what I'm talking about. My point is that gestures can mean different things when performed for men and for women. There's nothing irrational about it.
- patio11 17y agoI was once friend-zoned by a young lady I was interested in, and got to listen to a whole lot of talk about other guys. In particular, there was one gentleman that got upset with her because he thought she was, quote, leading him on. "Mary, what do you do with him?" "Oh, movies, dinner, that sort of thing." "Who pays for these?" "He does." "And he says you're leading him on?" "Yeah, what's up with that?" "That's because you're leading him on." Some time later I realized that Mary (not her real name) had a persistent habit of using people, and I began spending my time with people who did not value me solely for what I could do for them.