This is the main reason my wife and I moved from NYC to Pittsburgh. The people I know who still live in NYC end up spending much of their salary hiring people

This is the main reason my wife and I moved from NYC to Pittsburgh. The people I know who still live in NYC end up spending much of their salary hiring people to watch their kids, and then there's the competitive nature of getting kids into preschools, kindergarden, etc. and all the costs associated with those.