> * if you want to help your cause if you're getting riled up like this then you are actually doing it a disservice.* This is a common statement, but historica

> * if you want to help your cause if you're getting riled up like this then you are actually doing it a disservice.* This is a common statement, but historically groups without rights have had a lot of success with arguing and fighting and pushing back. If something (being nice) is demonstratidly not effective, why should I do it?