I am somewhat in the same boat as the OP. I'm originally from Japan, and all his points #1, and #2 are somewhat applicable to me. Speaking out from my experien

I am somewhat in the same boat as the OP. I'm originally from Japan, and all his points #1, and #2 are somewhat applicable to me. Speaking out from my experience, consider volunteering for something you are interested. I am volunteering for the anime convention for past 10+ years now and it actually does help you find new friends, because you are pretty much forced to communicate with other people. I was a bit of a lone wolf before my 20th, now I know a lot more faces than I used to be. When it comes to more intimate relationships, then mileage may vary. Hate to say, but the #2 factors can make it very tough. Honestly, I'm struggling with that myself as well, so not much of advise I can give here... (It's a one thing if I can find someone who can embrace the way I am, then that'd be great. But I'm getting older and honestly, I just don't feel worth changing my lifestyle for...)