Being introvert doesn't mean you can't talk to people but that you get back your energy when alone. So your issue is being afraid because you're self-centered o

Being introvert doesn't mean you can't talk to people but that you get back your energy when alone. So your issue is being afraid because you're self-centered or, in other words, too conscious of yourself instead of others (ie most people usually don't care about the way you talk, etc). I do the same and have a hard time keeping my friendships. Stop looking at yourself and go out. Try voluntary work and take your time taking care of others. Or just buy a dog.. just by taking care of the dog, you'll meet people (park, etc). One of the best way I found to start talking is asking advice. Everyone likes to give advice.