Some people socialize just for the sake of it, but some dont. (me neither) You need a mission. Go find something fun to do in which you work with other people.

Some people socialize just for the sake of it, but some dont. (me neither) You need a mission. Go find something fun to do in which you work with other people. Not entirely conincidentally, work is such a place, except that you likely did not choose your colleagues. I enlisted as volunteer to restore a monumental big old steam engine. Together with some old and young folks, we have fun working towards a common goal. This common goal is what makes me socialize, with rather random different people that share an interest i have. We are not the same, so we can help eachother.