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In 2014, the stigma surrounding depression is every bit as harsh as it was in 1998, when I was diagnosed. In some ways it's even harsher. That really sucks. I
by michaelochurch 12y ago
In 2014, the stigma surrounding depression is every bit as harsh as it was in 1998, when I was diagnosed. In some ways it's even harsher. That really sucks.
I think it's worse. People are more aware of the illness itself, but there's more conformity, which means that it's harder to find accommodation for symptoms that are mild but embarrassing (e.g. needing a quiet room, instead of an open-plan hell, to recover from a panic attack).
What's new and upsetting is the competitive conformity of the Millennial generation (or maybe I'm just biased against my won age group). Gen Xers in 1995 may have had to show up for work at 9:00 and wear slacks, but they didn't rat each other out. They knew it was them against the system. The rising generation seems to have more house-slave types who'll rat each other out. I don't mind conforming (to a reasonable degree) and I don't mind competing, but when people compete to conform I just want to punch everyone in the face.
- methodover 12y agoAbout the need for a quiet room -- I totally agree with you. I wonder how many engineers talk about needing a door which can close for reasons like 'I need to focus' when the real reason is 'I have an anxiety disorder which is exasperated by chaos and eased by quiet.' I know I've said the first without mentioning the second. In fact I turned down an offer purely because of an office plan which would put me between a Ping pong table and a room full of people (in an open office plan).