Advise from an old man--I have no reason to lie: Don't ever tell "the one" you love her. If you are somewhat good looking don't marry the first girl who gives

Advise from an old man--I have no reason to lie: Don't ever tell "the one" you love her. If you are somewhat good looking don't marry the first girl who gives it up. She will change mentally and physically. Never tell them you have money, or have the potential to make money. Keep a large portion of your money buried--she might leave you. Twice about having spawn--you have a say these days. If she loves you after you have a nervous breakdown she's a keeper--do anything for her.(Make sure she's not using your bad luck to feel better about herself. Charles Bukowski,'She loved me when I was broke, and humble.' Or disregard this "advise", I spent my twenties looking for the perfect person, and never found her, or was too stupid to know I found the right one? I think the latter. I used to say, "But she's too nice, and conventional?" Yea--I screwed up, but I'm still glad I didn't get married. oh yea, make sure to listen to her talk to her friends and mother; that's the real girl you are living with a long time.