I'm surprised that utility doesn't come in here anywhere. Imagine a bimodal distribution, one set of matches that you hate, and a much smaller set of matches th

I'm surprised that utility doesn't come in here anywhere. Imagine a bimodal distribution, one set of matches that you hate, and a much smaller set of matches that you love. Why try to wait for the best after the first 1/e? Why not just pair off with someone that is 99% as good as #1?