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>named Karen (not her real name) Why don't you tell her real name and other info?

• justincooke 12y ago
  Even with everything she did, we didn't think calling her out by name was something we should do. The lessons learned were there without mentioning her directly. Besides, with around 100M people in the Philippines, it's highly unlikely anyone reading this would need her name to avoid, heh.
• jacquesm 12y ago
  Because that would open them up to further trouble and because there is no gain from it. I write quite extensively about stuff that happened in the past and I'm always very careful to write it in such a way that the various people involved (even if they've done terrible things) can not be identified easily. People change.
  • rayiner 12y ago
    Here's the thing: people involved in an acrimonious breakup never have the same story about what happened. As much as you think you're viewing the situation objectively, any narrative you give is biased. If you name names unnecessarily, you deserve any further trouble you get into.