I hit the wrong arrow and upvoted this turkey when I meant to downvote it. Most problems are the "victims" own fault. Unless someone is the victim of a total

I hit the wrong arrow and upvoted this turkey when I meant to downvote it. Most problems are the "victims" own fault. Unless someone is the victim of a totally unexpected attack, eg 9/11, he at least assisted in his own problems and often enough caused them entirely on his own. EDIT: By "turkey" I meant the statement about "blaming the victim" which is repeated over and over in all sorts of contexts and is usually mindless PC-speak. I have yet to see it defended except by screeching and name-calling.