I remember reading this article a few years ago. It was a very divisive article for me. Early 20s me would have felt bad for Gembe. Early 30s me felt bad

I remember reading this article a few years ago. It was a very divisive article for me. Early 20s me would have felt bad for Gembe. Early 30s me felt bad for Valve. I don't know where the cycle goes from here. Maybe the real wisdom is feeling bad for both?