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I´ve talked to her before about her way of treating others, but she claims it´s just how things work in life and that i didn´t get how businesses are run. Oh,

I´ve talked to her before about her way of treating others, but she claims it´s just how things work in life and that i didn´t get how businesses are run. Oh, did i mention I´m the son of one of the directors? Yeah. I told my dad about her personality and the issues arising at work, but i think he still sees me as childish or doubts my word as things seem to work just fine from an outside view. I´m not happy here, but i doubt i can find other job offers with the same comodities i find here(it´s walking distance from my university, and i work only 4 hours, which i can arrenge during the day to not collide with my classes. I have these benefits because i´m the son of a board member and because i´m indispensable for the correct work of this place). I don´t know what to do. I´m not confortable here, but i don´t think i can change that, and changing jobs seem like a very difficult task, not mentioning i probably will be very far from my university and i´ll have to work up to 8 hours. I live in Uruguay, so I don´t have many of the opportunities and commodities people in first-world countries may have. Not too much work, horrible wages, terrible education. What would you do? Thanks.

trcollinson 12y ago
Not to be short, but to frank, finish school and then leave. How much more University do you have? If you have been working there for three years, I would imagine that you have another year and you are graduated. Power through it, get the diploma, and leave the area. Sometimes in life we have to endure bad times to get to the good times. You have endured so far, and it is hard, but keep going and then find something better for yourself.
- redxblood 12y ago
  No.. i´m finishing my second year there. I have trouble with depression. It really hinders my progress. I'm afraid i´ll be stuck here for a while then.
gdas 12y ago
Regardless if you choose to stay or leave this position I think it is better to learn how to deal with this kind of people. This kind of people think that everything happens because of them. They think everyone is replaceable, etc... Don't try to proove anything to her and don't necessarily do things because she asks you. Center only in your job and in yourself. If possible, create side projects and succeed in these side projects as well. Free yourself from this single position and from this mind game. If you center in your career (job + side projects) and in yourself, she'll not be able to play her game with you and everyday you'll see you have more control over your career and over your life.

trcollinson 12y ago

Not to be short, but to frank, finish school and then leave. How much more University do you have? If you have been working there for three years, I would imagine that you have another year and you are graduated. Power through it, get the diploma, and leave the area. Sometimes in life we have to endure bad times to get to the good times. You have endured so far, and it is hard, but keep going and then find something better for yourself.

redxblood 12y ago
No.. i´m finishing my second year there. I have trouble with depression. It really hinders my progress. I'm afraid i´ll be stuck here for a while then.

gdas 12y ago

Regardless if you choose to stay or leave this position I think it is better to learn how to deal with this kind of people. This kind of people think that everything happens because of them. They think everyone is replaceable, etc... Don't try to proove anything to her and don't necessarily do things because she asks you. Center only in your job and in yourself. If possible, create side projects and succeed in these side projects as well. Free yourself from this single position and from this mind game. If you center in your career (job + side projects) and in yourself, she'll not be able to play her game with you and everyday you'll see you have more control over your career and over your life.