And by the end I was thinking, "wow, only groped once a month? That's ... well, probably the most positive thing on this list!" Jesus. No matter how many time

And by the end I was thinking, "wow, only groped once a month? That's ... well, probably the most positive thing on this list!" Jesus. No matter how many time I read things like this (or hear about it from personal friends), I'm always stunned the next time. And one thing in particular bothers me, besides the obvious: I'm not aware of any of the guys /I/ know acting this way. But statistically, I know they must. (I'm not limiting the sample to people I'm close friends with, so it's not the magical aura of civilizing power that I exude that makes those around me acting like decent human beings.) That leaves only the possibility that when it happens, I simply don't notice. Yikes.