I started on cocktails and eventually found craft beer I like. It takes time. But, yeah, I've been the non drinker. People don't know what to do with you, and

I started on cocktails and eventually found craft beer I like. It takes time. But, yeah, I've been the non drinker. People don't know what to do with you, and they get annoyed. They project things onto you (like judgment), and don't even try to understand your motivations. It sucks. Groupthink is powerful and pervasive, and nerds have no problem adopting it if it suits them.