It's not a visceral reaction. Those tend to be far less polite. It's a reaction to the idea that men having their own struggles must, invariably, be parsed as

It's not a visceral reaction. Those tend to be far less polite. It's a reaction to the idea that men having their own struggles must, invariably, be parsed as a zero-sum game against women, and the toxic idea that for men to benefit, somehow women must lose.