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If, in posting something out of concern, and in trying to understand something better, I still am going to get chastised for "doing it wrong", then it really is
by optimusclimb 12y ago
If, in posting something out of concern, and in trying to understand something better, I still am going to get chastised for "doing it wrong", then it really is an uphill battle.
- jdp23 12y agoIt is an uphill battle to become aware of the blinders and unconscious habits we all have. I was making suggestions (not chastising) assuming that you really are trying to understand, and are willing to make the effort even if it's challenging.
- mrgn 12y agoThis uphill battle is becoming easier and easier, as evidenced by how many men are coming forward here to share their experiences and support. If you feel chastised, it's likely because, in the face of an overwhelming amount of data and evidence, your statements read in the vein of incredulity and dismissiveness rather than 'concern' and 'understanding.'
- deleted 12y ago[deleted]