I'm going to skip on the depression stuff apart from: go see a doctor (gp- general practitioner) and tell them you are depressed. Explain why. They will help yo

I'm going to skip on the depression stuff apart from: go see a doctor (gp- general practitioner) and tell them you are depressed. Explain why. They will help you. They will also refer you to a free or affordable place to go get counciling. If they dont help, find another. Regarding work: it is very hard to fire someone in nz. It will likely not happen. You need to talk to your boss be honest and open they will probably give you paid leave or work out manageable part time hours for you to keep things ticking over but not have too much pressure. The prospects are extremely good in nz right now so I'm not sure where you get that idea. I can refer you to a good recruiter if you want.