Following rules isn't the worst thing, but their use is limited to not offending people in obvious ways. (Unless you try to follow rules about body language, wh

Following rules isn't the worst thing, but their use is limited to not offending people in obvious ways. (Unless you try to follow rules about body language, which ultimately will creep people out.) The main thing in a social situation, geek or non-geek, is to be as relaxed and open as possible, without any expectations or worries. Easier said than done...