Well, I don't "work" 80 hours a week. I work 40 hours a week. I commute 8 hours a week. I volunteer (he comes with me sometimes) 2 hours a week. Lunch break

Well, I don't "work" 80 hours a week. I work 40 hours a week. I commute 8 hours a week. I volunteer (he comes with me sometimes) 2 hours a week. Lunch breaks: 5 hours. (so far 50 hours) Then I do all the routine stuff that needs to be done: Grocery shopping, hardware store, car maintenance, etc. Then I spend another 15 hours a week working on extra stuff (learning, following the news, doing stuff for clients, coding). Then there is the social events, the school events, church on Sunday, basketball practice on Tuesday at 7 and games on Saturday at 1 or 2. Then there is sleep, and making dinner, cleaning the house, etc. In the end, there is about 10 hours a week for just me and him time (watch movie, play games, go out and explore the world, park, read together, etc) For me? I'm lucky if I get 2 hours a week for me. I'm even more lucky if they're contiguous. (No time for TV, you notice, and precious little for computer games.)