> by choosing socially well-accepted and successful men they actually place a lot more emphasis on the inner values than males do. In a very real sense, women l

> by choosing socially well-accepted and successful men they actually place a lot more emphasis on the inner values than males do. In a very real sense, women love you for who you are (=rich and successful) as opposed to what you look like (=a characteristic you can't do much about). One might also argue the opposite: Men value women for who they are (looks included). Women value men for what they have (wealth and social status).