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> opt out of everything I've switched to the gay side, out of equal (physical) interest for both genders. Dating criteria are much more "on demand" depending o
by aragot 12y ago
> opt out of everything
I've switched to the gay side, out of equal (physical) interest for both genders. Dating criteria are much more "on demand" depending on the way you search for people, so it's hard to generalize. I can still say that in the gay subset, you can find people with balanced interests for who you are, how you look like, your experience, how much you earn and what you live for.
In comparison, girls I have found in my native country are unevenly balanced towards social validation and wage. Plus a big burden of cross-sex relationships is gender-equality-in-the-couple challenges, so I could really say that I've opted to the gay side for the peace of mind.
Quitting the maintstream race, and find your own balance of criteria, may do you good.
- Udo 12y agoI imagine it's nice to have that option, however, it's not really feasible to change what someone is sexually attracted to. If I could do that, I'd have tried it out already. Besides, I suspect some of the same things that make me a prohibitive choice for women (and vice versa) would also apply to same sex partners -not all of them though. But yeah, I can see how that can be worth pursuing.