You're not nice if you let your problems affect your work to a large extent. There is only so much we can expect an employer to bear. And to be honest, that lar

You're not nice if you let your problems affect your work to a large extent. There is only so much we can expect an employer to bear. And to be honest, that largely depends on your usefulness to the employer. Unfortunately, that means that since lower-paid workers are more easily replaceable, that the employer is less willing to bear with the problems.