Ok without getting defensive about the salient subtext, I see your point; but I think that argument is a non-starter unless you mean specifically in the context

Ok without getting defensive about the salient subtext, I see your point; but I think that argument is a non-starter unless you mean specifically in the context of physical care, which can't possibly apply to the cited number of young people. After all without the financial means and independence how can you care and provide for anyone let alone yourself? In my own context, sure - at least initially I had only myself to care about, so I won't argue that :)