How does your point actually differ from what you quoted? It seems like you're saying the same thing. "they know their status will never be questioned" = "the

How does your point actually differ from what you quoted? It seems like you're saying the same thing. "they know their status will never be questioned" = "the contrast is so great both parties clearly know their place in the interaction" "you get scared that maybe you should be with a girl like me" = "The closer two people come in looks...the more likely there would be pressure to feel as if they could be a match"