Do any of us actually control who we're attracted to? I for one can control who I'm sleeping with but not who i find attractive on the other hand I'm not hesit

Do any of us actually control who we're attracted to? I for one can control who I'm sleeping with but not who i find attractive on the other hand I'm not hesitant in enjoying to company of funny, flirtatious fat girl but the likelihood of me actually sleeping with her is very slim. She just doesn't turn me on. Then again there's one chubby girl i know that i wouldn't be against sleeping with. There's always exceptions...