I get what you're saying, but denouncing someone for traits you yourself have is in fact hypocritical. If you want to date an honest person but you yourself are

I get what you're saying, but denouncing someone for traits you yourself have is in fact hypocritical. If you want to date an honest person but you yourself are a flagrant liar, that's not a "desire to date someone different than you." Anyone with common sense would call that out as hypocritical.