As somebody said elsewhere in the thread, Shanley is polarizing. You're saying that since you and others regard Shanley's approach as hostile, guys should disr

As somebody said elsewhere in the thread, Shanley is polarizing. You're saying that since you and others regard Shanley's approach as hostile, guys should disregard what she says. I'm saying that guys who want to help should find away to get past their initial reaction to an approach they see as hostile, look at her concrete suggestions, and act on them.