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Yes, exactly. "Please don't touch my screen" has always worked fine for me. Especially if you get it out quick before they actually make contact, always say i

Yes, exactly. "Please don't touch my screen" has always worked fine for me. Especially if you get it out quick before they actually make contact, always say it politely, and make sure that you repeat the warning 100% of the time that there's a finger heading towards the screen. "Hey, you see that thing right--" "Please don't touch my screen." "I didn't touch it, though." "I know. Thank you. Please keep it that way." "Ok... anyway, the thing right here--" (pointing) "Please don't touch my screen." (mildly annoyed, steps back a foot) "So, the thing under the red bit there..." The downside is that the obsessive screen smudger will be a little bit annoyed at you. Which, in my opinion, is better that you being annoyed at them. At least it's in the open. And, there's a good chance that they won't come bother you f2f as much, unless it's really necessary, which is a bonus. If that doesn't work, just work remotely. And, seriously, what kind of unevolved cretin can't communicate without pointing anyway? It's embarrassing. If you have to point, point with the mouse, or learn to use Skitch.

ryanwaggoner 17y ago
We clearly have very different ideas of what "polite" means. Your little exchange makes you come off sounding like a prized asshole. And, seriously, what kind of unevolved cretin can't communicate without pointing anyway? This is ridiculous. Pointing serves a very useful purpose in communication, and is often far more efficient than verbal cues. Have you really never pointed at anything while trying to communicate something to someone? If not, you should really try it. You'll be amazed at how easy and effective it is :)
- IsaacSchlueter 17y ago
  Yes, I know what pointing accomplishes. But it's also very effective to communicate without marking up my screen in greasy finger prints. Everyone — everyone — who thinks that they can point at something on a screen effectively without touching it, is just fooling themselves. You will touch my screen if you point at it, and I'll know you touched it, because your fingerprint will be there, painted in disgusting finger grease distorting my beautiful pixels. Maybe not every time, but most of the time. There is a place for prized asshole behavior. Frankly, touching someone's screen when it clearly bothers them is pretty damn rude, imo. If the only way to get them to stop is to make them uncomfortable doing it in your presence, that seems fair to me. I'd react roughly the same way if someone rubbed their genitals on my screen while I was using it. It's that offensive to me. (Actually, I wouldn't mind the genitals quite as much. They're probably cleaner.)
  - tsally 17y ago
    There is a place for prized asshole behavior. Probably not. There's always a better way to say something. Acting like an asshole is just a fallback for not understanding how to effectively communicate. I'd be annoyed at a coworker if I had the dialogue you posted above with him/her.
  - ryanwaggoner 17y ago
    I'd react roughly the same way if someone rubbed their genitals on my screen while I was using it. It's that offensive to me. Really? You'd politely say "Please don't touch my screen with your genitals"? I don't know you or anything, but it seems like life is too short to get this worked up over something so trivial.
  - skwaddar 17y ago
    I just pointed at your screen, did I leave a mark ?

ryanwaggoner 17y ago

We clearly have very different ideas of what "polite" means. Your little exchange makes you come off sounding like a prized asshole. And, seriously, what kind of unevolved cretin can't communicate without pointing anyway? This is ridiculous. Pointing serves a very useful purpose in communication, and is often far more efficient than verbal cues. Have you really never pointed at anything while trying to communicate something to someone? If not, you should really try it. You'll be amazed at how easy and effective it is :)

IsaacSchlueter 17y ago
Yes, I know what pointing accomplishes. But it's also very effective to communicate without marking up my screen in greasy finger prints. Everyone — everyone — who thinks that they can point at something on a screen effectively without touching it, is just fooling themselves. You will touch my screen if you point at it, and I'll know you touched it, because your fingerprint will be there, painted in disgusting finger grease distorting my beautiful pixels. Maybe not every time, but most of the time. There is a place for prized asshole behavior. Frankly, touching someone's screen when it clearly bothers them is pretty damn rude, imo. If the only way to get them to stop is to make them uncomfortable doing it in your presence, that seems fair to me. I'd react roughly the same way if someone rubbed their genitals on my screen while I was using it. It's that offensive to me. (Actually, I wouldn't mind the genitals quite as much. They're probably cleaner.)
- tsally 17y ago
  There is a place for prized asshole behavior. Probably not. There's always a better way to say something. Acting like an asshole is just a fallback for not understanding how to effectively communicate. I'd be annoyed at a coworker if I had the dialogue you posted above with him/her.
- ryanwaggoner 17y ago
  I'd react roughly the same way if someone rubbed their genitals on my screen while I was using it. It's that offensive to me. Really? You'd politely say "Please don't touch my screen with your genitals"? I don't know you or anything, but it seems like life is too short to get this worked up over something so trivial.
- skwaddar 17y ago
  I just pointed at your screen, did I leave a mark ?