Please understand there's a right time for private secrets to be revealed. Reveal them too soon, when you are not ready yet, and it causes more harm than good.

Please understand there's a right time for private secrets to be revealed. Reveal them too soon, when you are not ready yet, and it causes more harm than good. > I have to wear a mask because everybody else does. No you don't. It seems like this is the problem you are trying to solve. It's a subtle problem, in that norms sweep you easily, but it's solution isn't shooting down privacy. Your comment would also be received better, particular the claims to what privacy is, if it contained citations to peer reviewed, published research.