You're not getting the point: a) A whole lot of people have been figuratively buried clutching a piece of paper with the title "Restraining Order". b) cognivo

You're not getting the point: a) A whole lot of people have been figuratively buried clutching a piece of paper with the title "Restraining Order". b) cognivore, who knows what he's talking about, was not the harasser. He would have absolutely no intention of violating a restraining order, unless his threat failed, in which case he'd violate it once, but for much, much higher stakes. Your final statement needs some support, and I don't see any in this topic.