How can you be so judgmental? You have read all of a few paragraphs and you think you know her? You have no idea what these people are like. I know people who,

How can you be so judgmental? You have read all of a few paragraphs and you think you know her? You have no idea what these people are like. I know people who, if you listen to them, sound like the most arrogant people you'll ever meet, but if you actually get to know them, really arent that arrogant and are actually really nice. Furthermore, in situations like these, people understandable tend to get really emotional so it is even harder to determine what they are really like. In fact, your post comes off as arrogant and immature. For example, you say "She had literally zero to do with the success of Github." I dont know how many relationships you've been in, but women I have dated have helped me keep my sanity and my happiness while doing difficult things. That in and of itself has helped me do better and therefore increased the chance of success of whatever I have been working on. There are also many historical examples of this effect at work. In short, let he who is without sin cast the first stone.