I use Tinder and have met a ton of really amazing people through it, including a girl who is now my best friend's long term girl friend. I don't use it to date

I use Tinder and have met a ton of really amazing people through it, including a girl who is now my best friend's long term girl friend. I don't use it to date though purely because if I venture into that realm, the temptation to play it like a game is too high. However, if you want to know how to Tinder, it's simpler than this is making it: 1. Choose pictures where you look good. Simple as that, don't overthink it - whatever "looks good" means to you is probably right. If not, ask your friend of opposite sex. 2. Write something funny in your description that leads the other person to have something to say to you. 3. Don't be shy - message people you find interesting with what you find interesting about them. If you don't find anything interesting about them and have nothing to say, don't send anything! If what you find interesting about them is they're attractive, that counts as finding nothing interesting about them. 4. Ask them out with your friends. The goal should be to include new people in your life, and the best way to do that is to say "my friends are going out to x place tonight, would you like to join us? It'll be x number of us, bring your friends if you want". #4 is why Grouper is so fantastic btw.