In order for your marriage to work it is likely that you will need both make compromises to create a life that you both can be satisfied with. You'll only get t

In order for your marriage to work it is likely that you will need both make compromises to create a life that you both can be satisfied with. You'll only get this through a lot of open communication with your wife. I am really troubled by the fact that the first thing you mention about her is that she isn't "as intellectual" as you are, not to mention the other negative things you said about her in your post. I think those are all things that you need to pretty quickly determine whether or not they are a big deal to you. If they are, then this marriage is in for a rocky future. Also, please don't have kids to try and fix your marriage. Get your troubles reasonably sorted out before you even think of bringing children into that environment.