"Trying to get somebody to live the sort of life you want for them is a potentially harmful mistake." Well yeah obviously, I was talking about the second-order

"Trying to get somebody to live the sort of life you want for them is a potentially harmful mistake." Well yeah obviously, I was talking about the second-order effect of the parenting. Like a control signal being modulated onto the main signal (with the main signal being a child's endogenous drives, interests and character), or one-dimensional Perlin noise, the parenting needs to follow the primary amplitude.