Your children are not going to copy your skills and abilities, they're going to imitate your decisions, conscious and unconscious. If you're an athletics coach

Your children are not going to copy your skills and abilities, they're going to imitate your decisions, conscious and unconscious. If you're an athletics coach that tells your athletes to run as fast as they can, and you personally half-ass it around the track and have a bit of a beer gut, then you're doing a bad job.