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Don't go so far as to say "fuck being a good person", but understand that not everyone deserves unlimited trust and good faith. --which is I think what most of
by gohrt 13y ago
Don't go so far as to say "fuck being a good person", but understand that not everyone deserves unlimited trust and good faith. --which is I think what most of your comment is expressing.
Your story is the topic of one of the most famous West End /Broadway songs of recent years:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6h1eBEmY6U https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6h1eBEmY6U
Even if you find that life's not fair, it
Doesn't mean that you just have to grin and bear it
If you always take it on the chin and wear it
Nothing will change
Even if you're little you can do a lot, you
Mustn't let a little thing like little stop you
If you sit around and let them get on top, you
Might as well be saying you think that it's OK
> homeless people asking for money ... i see them as predators who use negative emotions to try and take my positive feelings away.
Or they are asking for money who using asking for money as a way to get money. Your "predator" description fits panhandlers with manipulative stories, but not all "homeless people asking for money". Also, it's worth considering , if someone is telling you a story that upsets you, but is a true story, maybe the negative feelins you feel are appropriate, and there is something wrong with economic inequality.
- tunap 13y agoQuote: Your "predator" description fits panhandlers with manipulative stories, but not all "homeless people asking for money." The genuinely needful have long been run out of the public spaces/territories that have the most pay-out. The 'predators' in traffic making more than working at 7-11 don't abide threats to their income and will defend it unscrupulously. Stop and walk on that center median sometime and see what response you get. Edit: I'm referring to occupied PH zones, I'm also half kidding. Be prepared for a confrontation if you do that.
- MarkPNeyer 13y agoi understand your perspective. i do, for example, think there is something seriously wrong with income inequality. limiting the good faith i give to people is hard for me; it feels to me like being a 'good person' wouldn't require me to do that. saying 'fuck it' was my way of saying 'i need to be ok with the knowledge that i will hurt people, and i even have to err on the side of not helping someone who genuinely needs it, so i can keep myself safe.'