You're asking for advice, but you aren't asking the right questions. Why are you flunking out? You've told us about all these things happening to you, but tha

You're asking for advice, but you aren't asking the right questions. Why are you flunking out? You've told us about all these things happening to you, but that doesn't tell us why. Are you genuinely bad at CS and math? Is that stressing you out so much that you don't feel you have the time to focus on your other courses? Would you be better off with a part time schedule until you get your legs under you? How much of your time is allocated towards study / school work, and how much of it towards extracurriculars (social time, games, pet projects, browsing the web, getting hammered) on a weekly basis? Do you really like developing software? No, I don't mean whether you'd really like a job developing software and the perks it brings with it, I mean do you really LIKE developing software? Because if you don't, and you don't have a degree, you're probably going to have a bad time. Why do you think you make a good hire? While some classes can be boring, so are projects in the real world. The job market isn't interested in charity cases, nor is it interested in people who can't stay interested on mundane details (because there are ALWAYS mundane details). You can't know the path to success if you don't know why you're failing and how to fix it.