Money ~= power. Prop 8 was to reduce freedom of gays by non gays. Gay marriage has only "eww factor" affect on straight marriage. Thus, while it is fine to p

Money ~= power. Prop 8 was to reduce freedom of gays by non gays. Gay marriage has only "eww factor" affect on straight marriage. Thus, while it is fine to prefer gays not marry, it is wrong for group a to exert power against group b to limit group b's freedom when group a suffers no harm either way. Having the opinion is questionable. But when you exert your power over another group, you enter a sphere of active rather than passive bigotry.