but will be donating my estate to charity I find that people throw out that line and keep to it about as well as people keep to their diets. They make proclam

but will be donating my estate to charity I find that people throw out that line and keep to it about as well as people keep to their diets. They make proclamations, but when it comes time to actually NOT put their kids in their Will, they balk. Once you have kids, they become a part of you. And jeez, wait until you have grandkids. That completely upends what you think of as "important".