You need to disconnect the argument from the person making it, they are not one in the same. Most of the people who argue against gay marriage are fine honorab

You need to disconnect the argument from the person making it, they are not one in the same. Most of the people who argue against gay marriage are fine honorable people, who are very sincere in their beliefs - but totally dead wrong when measured to any objective standard. Being wrong doesn't make you reprehensible, it just makes you wrong - to borrow from judeo-chrisian ideology "Hate the sin, not the sinner".