I'm of a similar background. My brother and I are both software devs, making more than 3x as much out of college than her at 62. We both collectively send enou

I'm of a similar background. My brother and I are both software devs, making more than 3x as much out of college than her at 62. We both collectively send enough money that she has retired and stopped working. It's not my decision to make for you of course but you should consider reducing the burden.