I think the idea is that even if you are able to restructure reality to fit your expectations, it is only a temporary fix and your happiness is short lived. Al

I think the idea is that even if you are able to restructure reality to fit your expectations, it is only a temporary fix and your happiness is short lived. Also, you don't need "expectations" in order to reshape reality. In fact, I think the less expectations, the better you are prepared to reshape reality.