"and it isn't fully in favor of short term happiness" Exactly. And see nobody wants to believe that. They want to think that things will just work out. I'm wo

"and it isn't fully in favor of short term happiness" Exactly. And see nobody wants to believe that. They want to think that things will just work out. I'm wondering about how many people downvoting or disagreeing are aware that the major problem in marriage (as reported in popular culture and I believe it from my observation to be true) are money problems. So sure hey continue to pursue what gives you happiness but don't forget the things that allow basic survival.