I think the opposite. To consider that not allowing gay marriage is a HUGE denial of equal rights to gays. Not just flippantly saying "They can't get married,

I think the opposite. To consider that not allowing gay marriage is a HUGE denial of equal rights to gays. Not just flippantly saying "They can't get married, but they're still alive, right?" Maybe thinking that it's ALL tragic is the best point of view in moving this world forward.