You have no idea. I know anecdote != data, but I have seen an obscure one-woman theater show done by an Australian actor; the theme of the show was "gender" an

You have no idea. I know anecdote != data, but I have seen an obscure one-woman theater show done by an Australian actor; the theme of the show was "gender" and how little of it has anything to do with your physiology. She comes to stage in drag dressed as a man, but no facial hair; a weird, over aggressive super-macho man. Throughout the performance, she removes one clothing item at a time, and by the time she has stripped there was just a naked, aggressive douche-bag staring back at me. It was one of the profoundest acts of human performance I have ever seen. She is a very attractive women outside character; in-character, it was just another dude at the gym, I now remember that I don't even recall looking at her genitals, I wasn't looking for clues or confirmation, just annoyed there is a naked guy on front of my girlfriend.