I guess I forgot an important thing inherent in Western society: children leave home and never come back, in most cases. From that perspective, I understand you

I guess I forgot an important thing inherent in Western society: children leave home and never come back, in most cases. From that perspective, I understand your decision, and I think it's logical in many ways. Your investment is an near-guaranteed loss, so why make it, right? Where I'm from, things are different. It's the responsibility of the children to take care of their parents, especially during old age. In some cases, all of the children decide to live with their parents along with their families. I know it sounds weird, but it works in practice. This, I believe, makes raising children worthwhile, because there is a chance, even if it isn't that large, that your children will return the favor when you become old. Sorry for the long rant by the way. I wish you and your wife good luck :)