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You only dislike that word because someone told you to dislike it. Get over it.
by rail2rail 13y ago
You only dislike that word because someone told you to dislike it. Get over it.
- stan_rogers 13y agoI don't know about the grandparent, but I dislike the word in many contexts because it makes other people extremely uncomfortable. It was probably more frequent than "the" or "a" in my casual speech while I was in the military, but I'm not in the military at the moment, and other people matter.
- pyrocat 13y agothe key is to not give a shit about those people
- stan_rogers 13y agoNo, the key is not to offend people who don't particularly need to be offended. You aren't talking about "freedom", you're talking about being abrasive for no good reason. There are rude words that you may freely use to describe that sort of person, should you wish.
- codingdave 13y agoNo, I dislike it because it is not necessary to communicate effectively. It is a lazy way to punctuate your language, taking advantage of the fact that people dislike it to cheaply draw an emotional response.
- anu_gupta 13y agoFrom the fucking lovely Stephen Fry "The sort of twee person who thinks swearing is in any way a sign of a lack of education or a lack of verbal interest is just a fucking lunatic." Profanity is an essential and rich part of the English language. It's really only prudes and people who need to feel morally superior have a problem with it, and they can fuck right off, frankly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_osQvkeNRM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_osQvkeNRM
- leephillips 13y agoI like Mr. Fry and agree with part of your and his message. What bothers me, though, is that it sounds as if you are trying to say that there is only one type of word, and that there is really no such thing as "profanity". But that robs profanity of its usefulness (for example, some recent research shows that swearing can actually alleviate physical pain - but if no words are considered "bad," this probably wouldn't work any more). The whole idea of a swear word is that it's supposed to be strong, and, yes, offensive in some way. That means that there will be contexts in which profanity will be inappropriate, and there is nothing prudish about knowing this. Good writing means using the right word for the right purpose, and sprinkling swears inside a technical article usually comes off as cheap and lazy. Your attitude changes when you have children. I used to use more colorful language more routinely. But there are various reasons you don't want to hear those words coming out of your little ones' mouths, yet.
- happyscrappy 13y agoWithout the prudes the word would lose its power, so maybe we should keep them around.
- codingdave 13y agoYes, I am a prude. And I have no problem with Stephen Fry thinking poorly of me.
- trentmb 13y agoStephen Fry doesn't just curse. He curses well. He curses (most importantly) when appropriate. Unlike you, and unlike most of the rubbish that gets posted. > It's really only prudes and people who need to feel morally superior have a problem with it, and they can fuck right off, frankly. Kinda like how you need to feel superior to them about this particular issue?
- Touche 13y agoThe word is only used because people dislike it.