Just a thought to the author of the OP (OldCoder): perhaps tone down the very public ordeal that is happening with your family I mean no disrespect or to sugge

Just a thought to the author of the OP (OldCoder): perhaps tone down the very public ordeal that is happening with your family I mean no disrespect or to suggest that victims should hide their past or not confront their offenders. But some of the top results that come up when I search your name is your various websites. On these, on the top of all the pages I have seen, is a large disclaimer box discussing your lawsuits/situation. Your intense feelings about your family shows through quite clearly. Anyone doing even the slightly due diligence on a prospective employee would find this. As a human being I feel for you. As a potential employer, I would take one look at that and say "I'm not going to bring that level of drama into my company."