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My bet is that you probably have a huge mortgage to pay and little savings. That is what is killing you. I have a kid, however we also have no mortgage, no car
by tlear 13y ago
My bet is that you probably have a huge mortgage to pay and little savings. That is what is killing you.
I have a kid, however we also have no mortgage, no cars(live in a centre of a city) and can save quite a bit per month.
I think stable is dangerous, being dependent on employment from someone is terrible. Basically I live with assumption that I might need to look for a new gig next week. So keep my network maintained, my skill continuously sharpened etc. Do not fear losing job embrace it!
- darklajid 13y agoGood bet, but wrong. I don't own a thing, I'm renting an apartment. Single income, wife's never started (due to the kids, plans to start Real Soon Now™). I don't fear losing my job. Without bragging: I'm reasonably sure that I'm among the best developers the company has, easily. My life's even quite relaxed, due to my (earned) status. It's just boring. And sometimes annoying. So I'm not afraid of losing my job. That is totally possible, but imo quite unlikely at this point. I'm just afraid of actively looking for a 'fun job'.
- tlear 13y agoHad to try, I know a few people like what I described. Do not be afraid to look for fun job. Worst case happens you go there people hate you and fire you during probation. You are good you will find something else. Best part part you are not going to feel what if.. I am not saying put all your savings into building and AI startup or new Facebook lol. Love your life and you and your kid will be happier for it